Natalie 🏳️‍⚧️☕ @natalie@transgression.cafe

Hold up. Do people **experience** gender? What does that mean?

I hate getting locked into things. Just spent 3 hrs cleaning and unpacking, only meant to do 1 hour and the last 2 were spent fighting between cleaning and stopping.

Welp. Bike was stolen. 😭

Bonus: They Sleep

Got a new cage forthe ratties. Need to make platforms DIY but we wanted to let them run around for a little. Over 4x as large and we got it 50% off!

Brains are silly. I was checking with the girlfriend how like, personal I can be with the rats. Like is it okay if I take them out of the cage for cuddles too bc they're hers and I didn't want them to bind with me more than her.

Without missing a beat, she corrected me that these are OUR rats.

I had a proper involuntary happy cry.

Bonus: they watchin'

Ratties like the wooden perch a little too much... Come on, one at a time!

Sorry, they're adorable

We got some rescue ratties from the RSPCA. Nixi & Nex, males, desexed and microchipped. Mother ratty apparently came in, pregnant and sick, gave birth to 20 just before she passed and 2 from the litter didn't make it

We got them on our monthiversary date (20th) and they're 3 months old. We've been dating for 3 months. I also started HRT on the 20th of April. This is hilarious

Welp. Okay. Btw I think in the last week I've discovered sexual desire, definitely new to me, so definitely ace-spec. But the fact that I feel it actively /BOTHERS/ me. At least it's towards my girlfriend, but geeze

I've got a box of personal memories, highschool jackets, scout uniforms etc. It's weird that it feels like it belongs to someone who never existed now. Not a sad feeling, but one I can't describe fully.

Feeling cute today

I've found that after starting HRT my like "need" for stimulation is actually zero, I indulge maybe once every 1-2 months out of boredom. Whilst my girlfriend needs some self-pleasure at least once every week or two, and'll bemoan it when it's been a while.

Which is intensely funny to me bc I'm very horny and very sex-favourable, whilst she's almost entirely sex-indifferent and infrequently horny (Even though ik these are different things, just unexpected)

I'm not sure what would bug me more. Being seen as a gay-but-not-lesbian couple, or, being seen as a straight couple. Like, I think we're pretty obviously a bunch of lesbos, but the cis make me cispicious.